BEING OPTIMISTIC CREATES A POSITIVE ATTITUDE!!!

BEING OPTIMISTIC CREATES A POSITIVE ATTITUDE IN A CHILD! An OPTIMISTIC CHILD learns to ATTACK and CONQUER Challenges.

An OPTIMISTIC CHILD sees a Life Challenge as TEMPORARY and immediately SEEKS TO FIND SOLUTIONS! An OPTIMISTIC CHILD treats Life Challenges with a POSITIVE ATTITUDE!

PARENTS can develop an OPTIMISTIC CHILD!

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A SATISFYING MARRIAGE EQUALS STABILITY FOR A CHILD!

A SATISFYING MARRIAGE EQUALS STABILITY FOR A CHILD!

Children raised by QUARRELSOME PARENTS often have NEGATIVE ADULT RELATIONSHIPS! A REWARDING, HAPPY MARRIAGE is not only GOOD ROLE MODELING but also enables a CHILD TO BECOME A RESPONSIBLE ADULT WITH HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS!

LEARN how to have a SATISFYING MARRIAGE in SIMPLE HABITS FOR MARITAL HAPPINESS!!!

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TWO COOPERATIVE SPOUSES--ONE HAPPY MARRIAGE!

TWO COOPERATIVE SPOUSES create ONE HAPPY MARRIAGE!

ONE of the most SIGNIFICANT PROBLEMS that can create an UNHAPPY MARRIAGE is a CONTROLLING SPOUSE.

In Public, a Controlling Spouse is usually engaging and pleasant, while in PRIVATE they are DEMANDING, MANIPULATIVE, PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE, and HIGHLY STRESSFUL. A CONTROLLING SPOUSE is devastating to Marital Happiness.

A HEALTHY SPOUSE has a GOAL to be COOPERATIVE and EASY TO GET ALONG WITH! In fact, a marriage research study from over 40 years ago found that being COOPERATIVE was the #1 QUALITY that leads to a HAPPY MARRIAGE!

Definitely, TWO COOPERATIVE SPOUSES Equals ONE HAPPY MARRIAGE!

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Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  Focus on the Family   Amazon

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INTOLERABLE FLAWS LEAD TO MARITAL UNHAPPINESS!!!

EVERY SPOUSE has both VIRTUES and FLAWS, but what can BREAK A MARITAL CONNECTION is a spouse having one or more INTOLERABLE FLAWS — aka DEAL BREAKERS.

INTOLERABLE FLAWS severely CRACK A MARITAL BOND. Most UNHAPPY MARRIAGES are due to ONE SPOUSE having at least ONE INTOLERABLE FLAW or DEAL BREAKER!!!

For MARITAL HAPPINESS, both SPOUSES must have a DAILY DESIRE to be BETTER and BETTER in EVERY WAY EVERYDAY!!!

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Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  Focus on the Family   Amazon

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No Perfect Parent and No Perfect Child!

Many parents strive for PERFECTION in themselves and their children. The effects of perfectionism can be DEVASTATING EMOTIONALLY, BEHAVIORALLY, and RELATIONALLY. Every person is imperfect, and MISTAKES are great LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES for everyone, including a CHILD!!! WELCOME Mistakes and Disobedience as OPPORTUNITIES to Guide a child toward RESPONSIBLE DECISION-MAKING!!!

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Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

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DAILY, HOW POLITE ARE YOU TO EVERYONE?

How POLITE will you be to EVERYONE TODAY?

POLITENESS is ONE of the FOUNDATIONAL QUALITIES that produce SATISFYING RELATIONSHIPS, including MARRIAGE. After helping THOUSANDS OF COUPLES achieve a HAPPY MARRIAGE, I have found that EVERY GRATIFYING MARRIAGE possesses 2 Spouses that GO OVERBOARD ON KINDNESS and POLITENESS!!!

Healthy Spouses make POLITENESS a PRIORITY!!!

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Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  Focus on the Family   Amazon

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SARCASM DESTROYS A CHILD'S SELF-WORTH!!!

SARCASM DESTROYS a CHILD’S SELF-WORTH and HURTS a Parent-Child Relationship!

The Greek word for SARCASM means “TEARING OF FLESH.” SARCASM is MASKED ANGER, an EMOTIONAL SLAP to a CHILD’S FACE, and makes a CHILD FEEL STUPID!

A PARENT and SPOUSES should ELIMINATE NEGATIVE SARCASM!!!

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Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse   Focus on the Family   Amazon

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TONE OF VOICE & FACIAL EXPRESSION MAKE A POSITIVE DIFFERENCE!

TONE OF VOICE and FACIAL EXPRESSION make a HUGE DIFFERENCE in determining a HAPPY MARRIAGE or UNHAPPY ONE!

Over 90% of a MESSAGE is conveyed through TONE OF VOICE and FACIAL EXPRESSION.

SPEAK SLOWLY with a LOW VOLUME to CREATE A HAPPY MARRIAGE! TONE and FACIAL EXPRESSION make the POSITIVE DIFFERENCE!!!

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Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse   Focus on the Family   Amazon

Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

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PRAISE PUBLICLY, CORRECT PRIVATELY!!!

The cliché’ is true, “PRAISE PUBLICLY, Correct Privately.”

It is easy to be a faultfinder BUT BE A GOODFINDER and BUILD A CHILD’S SELF-CONFIDENCE and SELF-WORTH with PRAISE!

A PARENT can PRAISE and COMPLIMENT in PRIVATE and PUBLIC but must ONLY CORRECT IN PRIVATE!

BE A GOODFINDER WITH OTHERS!!!

Learn Effective Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse   Focus on the Family   Amazon

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MEETING EXPECTATIONS CREATES MARITAL HAPPINESS!!!

The SIMPLE REASON for MARITAL HAPPINESS is EXPECTATIONS are being REQUESTED and MET!

Whenever there is an UNHAPPY MARRIAGE, the reverse is true, and EXPECTATIONS are NOT BEING FULFILLED!

Within a HAPPY MARRIAGE, BOTH SPOUSES regularly REQUEST REASONABLE EXPECTATIONS because that is ESSENTIAL for HAPPINESS and EMOTIONAL INTIMACY!!!

Learn Effective Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse   Focus on the Family   Amazon

Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

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