Weekly Wisdom — Dr. Randy Schroeder

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ALWAYS SIT FOR MARRIAGE DISCUSSIONS!!!

Do You Want to Avoid Marriage Arguments?

With Serious Issues, ALWAYS SIT for Respectful Discussions! Standing Can Be Intimidating and Often Leads to Yelling!

Learn Effective, Positive Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  Focus on the Family   Amazon

Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book Crosslink Publishing Focus on the Family   Amazon

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God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder

BE A GIVER AND AVOID SELFISHNESS!!!

BE A GIVER and AVOID SELFISHNESS! The BEST GIFT Spouses can give one another is the GIFT OF GIVING!

HAPPY MARRIAGES have TWO DAILY GIVERS because the BEST WAY to prove ONE’S LOVE IS THROUGH GIVING.

A Great Question to ask, “IN TERMS OF WORDS and ACTIONS, DAILY WHAT AM I GIVING TO MY SPOUSE AND MARRIAGE?”

Learn Effective, Positive Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  Focus on the Family   Amazon

Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

Please follow me on LinkedIn, Twitter, and SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube Channel. I encourage you to check out the 60+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder

SECRETS DAMAGE MARRIAGES!!!

SECRETS DAMAGE MARRIAGES, and HEALTHY SPOUSES DO NOT have SECRETS!

The moment a Spouse begins KEEPING SECRETS, instantaneously DECEIT and BETRAYAL are at the Core of the Relationship.

A Spouse with INTEGRITY is TRUTHFUL, HONEST, TRUSTWORTHY, and TRANSPARENT with ALL their ACTIVITIES.

Hence, BOTH SPOUSES NEVER HAVE SECRETS IN A HAPPY MARRIAGE!!!

Learn Effective, Positive Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  Focus on the Family   Amazon

Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

Please follow me on LinkedIn, Twitter, and SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube Channel. I encourage you to check out the 60+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder

TWO COOPERATIVE SPOUSES--ONE HAPPY MARRIAGE!

TWO COOPERATIVE SPOUSES create ONE HAPPY MARRIAGE!

ONE of the most SIGNIFICANT PROBLEMS that can create an UNHAPPY MARRIAGE is a CONTROLLING SPOUSE.

In Public, a Controlling Spouse is usually engaging and pleasant, while in PRIVATE they are DEMANDING, MANIPULATIVE, PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE, and HIGHLY STRESSFUL. A CONTROLLING SPOUSE is devastating to Marital Happiness.

A HEALTHY SPOUSE has a GOAL to be COOPERATIVE and EASY TO GET ALONG WITH! In fact, a marriage research study from over 40 years ago found that being COOPERATIVE was the #1 QUALITY that leads to a HAPPY MARRIAGE!

Definitely, TWO COOPERATIVE SPOUSES Equals ONE HAPPY MARRIAGE!

Learn Effective, Positive Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  Focus on the Family   Amazon

Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

Please follow me on LinkedIn, Twitter, and SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube Channel. I encourage you to check out the 60+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder

INTOLERABLE FLAWS LEAD TO MARITAL UNHAPPINESS!!!

EVERY SPOUSE has both VIRTUES and FLAWS, but what can BREAK A MARITAL CONNECTION is a spouse having one or more INTOLERABLE FLAWS — aka DEAL BREAKERS.

INTOLERABLE FLAWS severely CRACK A MARITAL BOND. Most UNHAPPY MARRIAGES are due to ONE SPOUSE having at least ONE INTOLERABLE FLAW or DEAL BREAKER!!!

For MARITAL HAPPINESS, both SPOUSES must have a DAILY DESIRE to be BETTER and BETTER in EVERY WAY EVERYDAY!!!

Learn Effective, Positive Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  Focus on the Family   Amazon

Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

Please follow me on LinkedIn, Twitter, and SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube Channel. I encourage you to check out the 60+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder

DAILY, HOW POLITE ARE YOU TO EVERYONE?

How POLITE will you be to EVERYONE TODAY?

POLITENESS is ONE of the FOUNDATIONAL QUALITIES that produce SATISFYING RELATIONSHIPS, including MARRIAGE. After helping THOUSANDS OF COUPLES achieve a HAPPY MARRIAGE, I have found that EVERY GRATIFYING MARRIAGE possesses 2 Spouses that GO OVERBOARD ON KINDNESS and POLITENESS!!!

Healthy Spouses make POLITENESS a PRIORITY!!!

Learn Positive, Powerful Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  Focus on the Family   Amazon

Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

Please follow me on LinkedIn, Twitter, and SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube Channel. I encourage you to check out the 60+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder

MEETING EXPECTATIONS CREATES MARITAL HAPPINESS!!!

The SIMPLE REASON for MARITAL HAPPINESS is EXPECTATIONS are being REQUESTED and MET!

Whenever there is an UNHAPPY MARRIAGE, the reverse is true, and EXPECTATIONS are NOT BEING FULFILLED!

Within a HAPPY MARRIAGE, BOTH SPOUSES regularly REQUEST REASONABLE EXPECTATIONS because that is ESSENTIAL for HAPPINESS and EMOTIONAL INTIMACY!!!

Learn Effective Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse   Focus on the Family   Amazon

Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

Please follow me on LinkedIn, Twitter, and SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube Channel. I encourage you to check out the 60+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder

SEXUAL INTIMACY AND MARRIAGE ARE CONNECTED!!!

SEXUAL INTIMACY and MARRIAGE can’t be placed in 2 different compartments.

Sexual intimacy and marriage are very much INTERCONNECTED for MARITAL HAPPINESS!

Sexual intimacy is NOT JUST for physical pleasure, but more IMPORTANTLY it is a way of DEMONSTRATING LOVE for a STRONGER EMOTIONAL CONNECTION!

Learn Effective Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse   Focus on the Family   Amazon

Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

I encourage you to check out the 60+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder

HAPPY MARITAL COUPLES SLEEP TOGETHER!

Many UNHAPPY MARRIAGES are due to one SPOUSE having UNHEALTHY SLEEP HABITS, like STAYING UP LATE or NOT SLEEPING TOGETHER.

NOT SLEEPING TOGETHER also leads to an EMOTIONAL DISCONNECT and that often produces a TROUBLED MARRIAGE and SEXUAL INTIMACY PROBLEMS.

A husband and wife SLEEPING IN BED TOGETHER is a SIGN OF COMMITMENT and STRENGTHENS a RELATIONSHIP!

Learn Effective Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse   Focus on the Family   Amazon

Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

I encourage you to check out the 60+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder

IN EVERY HAPPY MARRIAGE POLITENESS REIGNS SUPREME!!!

In every HAPPY MARRIAGE POLITENESS REIGNS SUPREME!!!

By being EXTRA-POLITE with each other, spouses ADD RESPECT, TRUST, and COURTEOUSNESS to their relationship, while at the same time STRENGTHENING their EMOTIONAL INTIMACY and the “ONENESS” God wants for every marriage.

Learn Effective Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse   Focus on the Family   Amazon

Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

I encourage you to check out the 60+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder